Saturday, July 17, 2010

Can you say....SLACKER!!


It started when we went away and then since we have gotten back we have been in summer mode. Not in the mood to write too much. I will update this coming week, including some new pics. Nighty night! xoxo
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  1. LeMiraJuly 19, 2010 at 11:48 AM

    Seriously loving that box of Slacker Jacks! That explains my summer!

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  2. I amJuly 21, 2010 at 10:34 PM

    Hi. Just cruising through checking out your space and thought I'd leave some tracks as it were. I'm glad you were able to get some real summer time in. That's getting pretty tough these days. Thanks for the comment, and regarding your relationship with the birthfather, I don't have any "fix it" suggestions. I truly wish I did. The only idea I have is to keep sending updates and keeping the door open. I've encountered several adoptive parents whose birthfamilies have disappeared. After years of little or no contact (the adoptive family continued sending pictures and e-mails the whole time) the birthfamily re-entered the family sphere and began building a relationship. I've also encountered some who wander away and don't return. It may be worth remembering that his frontal cortex isn't finished yet. His judgment centers and the frontal temporal lobes (where much of our emotions are processed) haven't finished developing. Unfortunately they won't until he's about 24. Anyway I've rambled too much already. I'm glad we've found one another. Good luck to you and thank you for continuing to reach out to your child's birthfamily. Hopefully the birthfather will be able to reach back soon.

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A penny for your thoughts! ♥ Meghan

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